You could however bring it up over tea..at a later date of course.

Don't make the mistake of thinking the person you are arguing with wants to hear how they themselves do the very thing they are accusing you of doing. Nothing could be farther from the truth.

What they want is for you to accept responsibility for your grievous actions so we can put this whole ugly business behind us. Anything less is going to drag everyone down a long sulky road of irritation and possibly name calling.

Balance

Don’t spend so much time worrying about what everyone else wants you to do that you forget what you want to do. It’s unrealistic to say that no one else matters. We’re all obligated to someone, whether it’s our spouse, our kids, our boss or our parents. Relationships require give and take. Just make sure you’re not always the one giving.

Sometimes it’s okay to take.

Some things are not meant to be skimped on

Don't buy the Costco brand toilet paper. Especially not if you are a toilet paper snob like me. It's not worth the few pennys you save. Charmin Ultra is the only way to go.

Sorry Costco, you know I love you, and your brand is usually top notch. This item, not so much.